You Can Do Scary Things (day 2 is live!) 🌻


People think manifesting means waving a magic wand and suddenly receiving a million dollars. It’s doesn't.

Manifesting has become a term wayyyy overused and misunderstood.

We're manifesting all the time. You manifested this email, the phone you're using to read this email, the socks, shirt, pants, and thong you're wearing while reading this email.

If you replace the word "manifesting" with "designing" you get a better understanding of what all this is about.

You are the creator of your reality.

  • What comes into your life is what you are available for.
  • What comes into your life is what your beliefs, identity, and actions are magnetizing.

The thing people forget is that action is a big piece of the manifesting formula, especially when you are going after something you don't have yet.

Day 2 is about how brave action is required to intentionally manifest something new.

"Intentional manifesting" is about doing the work to feel safe, alive, loved, and "turned on" ... so much so that you naturally take inspired and aligned action on repeat.

Because it's those repetitive, tiny brave steps that compound in the quantum realm. And more often than not, there isn't one giant leap that leads you to a million dollars.

It's more like every action leads you to the next lilypad where you get information, inspiration, or a lesson that leads to the next bigger, softer, greener lilypad. And you continue to rise up from there.

This is why analysis paralysis is where dreams go to die.

We think that bravery comes from rehearsal in our dressing room. So we research, practice behind closed doors, ruminate, hoping our "readiness" will come BEFORE we step in front of the big lights.

But in reality, bravery is built on stage. And no where else.

So how do you even get yourself to do even a small brave thing when life feels overwhelming? We talk about it in Day 2!! You can listen on Spotify by searching Lavender Sky, Mini Miracles. Or click the button below.

Believing in you always,

Paris 🌻

Paris Volpe

My job is to guide brave souls through big transitions. I'm glad you're here.

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