a proud escapee of the sunk cost fallacy The first person I didn't lie to about my wedding was my orthodontist. He was very interested to hear all about it because for nearly 4 years we had been working on my smile for the big day. "Was it the best day of your life?" he excitedly asked, hand in my mouth. "Ahhhuuum...ahht eeeally," I said, not being able to use my lips. Translation: "Um, not really." He stopped and backed up his swivel chair to see my whole face. "Not really?" he repeated. Oh...
3 months ago • 3 min read
Hello darling angels, What is the ONE THING that makes you the most magnetic? It differs for every energy type. And all the types have cool energetic practices to employ when it comes to manifesting their dreams. But if you aren’t using YOUR specific one, it can feel like nothing is working. All of these practices add up in your favor: identity work, belief rejiggering, brave action. But this is the piece that makes it allll feel less hard. In Human Design, we don’t say “this is what is going...
3 months ago • 1 min read
Hey you!! What you believe about yourself and the world around you has a direct correlation with what comes into your life. In Day 3 of the free Mini Miracles audio series, we talk about the two ways you can get clarity on your underlying core beliefs that are running the show. Two ways to gain clearer awareness of what code is running the algorithm of your life. This can be super tough to do in therapy or in standard journaling because sometimes… the narrator is unreliable. GUITLY! ;) So...
3 months ago • 1 min read
People think manifesting means waving a magic wand and suddenly receiving a million dollars. It’s doesn't. Manifesting has become a term wayyyy overused and misunderstood. We're manifesting all the time. You manifested this email, the phone you're using to read this email, the socks, shirt, pants, and thong you're wearing while reading this email. If you replace the word "manifesting" with "designing" you get a better understanding of what all this is about. You are the creator of your...
3 months ago • 1 min read
Day 1 of Manifesting Mini Miracles is live! Who already got their flowers?! Or another mini miracle? If you listen to the kick-off audio, you know that I started this journey years ago, trying to manifest flowers as a way to prove to myself that this identity woo-woo stuff works. And I told myself for every mini miracle I received I would take a polaroid pic and save it as proof. the proof The first bouquet of free flowers I manifested had me overwhelmed with gratitude. And then I went...
3 months ago • 1 min read
Three times in the last month I’ve manifested free flowers. 💐 THREE. TIMES. THRICE!! Free flowers (meaning I did not spend a cent on them) making their way to me because… I decided to manifest free flowers. 🌸 First, my dad bought me a budding peony plant (that I didn't ask for!) 🌸 Then my sister-in-law brought me a literal BUCKET of hyacinth leftover from a work event. 🌸 And then this weekend my mighty good man and I co-manifested a client giving us leftover centerpieces *gasps in peony* Once...
3 months ago • 2 min read
Hi Reader, Good to see you’re alive and well, surviving the retrograde. I’m here with good news and a homework assignment for actually making 2026 the year you get all your special wins. The ones that have been brewing inside of you all of 2025. You know the ones. The most underrated ways to get out of a rut, into expansion, and a “possibilities mindset,” is to spend a day in your aligned environment. If people keep telling you “in time, your dreams will come true” but being in the right...
5 months ago • 2 min read
Dearest Reader, Let's talk about money for a hot minute. (Speaking of, today's the last call to use code DEBBIE44 at checkout for 44% off Human Design or Soul Strategy sessions!!) When it comes to money, I want you to try on new beliefs: You get to make a lot of money AND use your soul gifts. Having a ton of money and being in a state of thriving and soulful living can coexist. We’ve been conditioned to believe that making a lot of money is the result of climbing rung by rung with a hammer,...
6 months ago • 1 min read
Hello Dreamers, Believers and Beliebers! Here's today's lesson on making dreams happen. Small moves are big shifts in the matrix. Even an action so small that a 9-year-old could do it, beats bench-warming every time. There was a little girl who sent a few bucks to her favorite charity in efforts to save the world on her birthday. That letter landed her an internship 15 years later. 🥹💕👩🏻💻 Hi. It was me. I'm the girl. The Fund For Peace found this letter in their archives, found me on the...
6 months ago • 1 min read